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This is something else that I discovered over the past week. Wierd huh? I keep discovering stuff this week!

Anyway, this is it:

THINGS THAT BOTHER YOU MAY NOT MATTER TO OTHERS AS MUCH AS YOU THINK

I guess I have to elaborate more.

For example, if you did something embarassing and it really bothers you, just remember that no one actually really takes note of it.

They may laugh at it for a little while, maybe even a few days. But eventually, the excitement will die down and they begin to talk about something else.

When they stop talking about it, you should also stop feeling embarassed and bothered about it.

Just think about it. How many of your friend's embarassing moments do you actually remember? Things that happen to others don't seem such big deal, right?

That's what everyone feels. So your embarrasing moments aren't such a big deal after all.

We all have to learn to laugh at ourselves. After that, just put it behind and don't let it bother you anymore.

I find this really useful, because such things used to bother me for a really long time, so I began to be afraid to doing certain things.

Now, when I tell myself that others don't really remember these stuff, it helps.

I feel 'released' frum all the embrassments that have been following me for a long time.

People dun really give a damn to what goes on in you life, unless they are some one close.

Even then, they're probably too busy with their own lives and thinking about their own embarassments to bother about yours.

Learn to laugh at yourself. It'll make you feel better and help you get over it quick!